Maybe you're tired — of trying, of failing, of carrying burdens alone. Jesus speaks to people exactly like that: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28–30, ESV)
His invitation isn't "try harder"; it's "come to me". The gospel tells us that God's love was given "while we were still sinners" (Romans 5:8, ESV) — before we cleaned ourselves up. If he loved us then, he will not let us go now.
Bring your weariness to Jesus in prayer, and don't carry it alone: tell a trusted Christian friend or your church. If you're in crisis or danger, call 000.
Go deeper: Voddie Baucham's sermon "The Wisdom of Our Foolish Gospel" (1 Corinthians 1:18–25, Grace Community Church) · Voddie Baucham Ministries.